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Before you begin:
Introduction - forget money, forget fame, just cut to the chase and get the girls!
Baby steps to success - master the details and master the stages to master everything
General rules: (Crucial Rules for the beginning seduction artist)
The devil in the "1 - 10" ratings system - don't get suckered into rating women in your mind
The 3 seconds rule - the most important rule you'll ever learn, say bye-bye to hesitation.
The outcome really doesn't matter - read why indifference is such a winning attitude.
Look and feel your best - all the time!
Be the Alpha/Dominant male - be in charge of your surroundings. Including the girls:)
Do my looks matter? - yes they do, but not nearly as much as you think.
Nice guys vs jerks - the key difference between the two explained.
Good traits to have - or develop, to be successful with women.
Good mindsets to have - to supercharge your interactions with women.
How to walk, move and talk - and let your mere presence do the talking.
Women want good sex - so make sure you do her right:)
Should you express or contain your sexual desires? - a moot point, read why.
Wanna play the dating game? - ... um... let's see now...
The rules with your wingman - make sure you agree on the rules.
Get yourself a mentor - or better yet, get three!
Getting started: (BASIC TOOLS that will GUIDE you in the beginning!!!)
On confidence - and getting started with approaching girls.
Plan your success - because behind every success, there's a plan.
Experiment! - don't think twice, don't look back, just have fun!
Casual meetings vs pick-ups - the pros and cons.
Create and maintain eye contact - use the ultimate aphrodisiac to show confidence, create attraction and confirm interest.
At a party - a mild alternative to the 3s rule.
Just say "Hi" - then continue with one of the two tactics described in the article.
Talk to girls - everywhere!
Friendly pretty-girls vs unfriendly ugly-girls - and swamped average-girls; who should you talk to?
Make your goal to make a woman smile - and the rest will follow naturally
Level the playing field - disarm her most poweful
weapons while becoming instantly attractive.
How to initiate a conversation - here's your back-up, in case your primary parashoot doesn't open.
Talking to her = echoing her - a stripped down version of Trance words and Eliciting values.
Fluff talk - the essential skill of talking about nothing, and how to evolve from that.
The "don't"s of fluff talk - what to avoid.
How to ask a woman absolutely any question - and how to get away with it
(Not) Answering her questions -
hell out of her and make her intrigued.
How to be funny - to make the women laugh (and to shut up the boring people).
Reading body language - its like reading people's thoughts, it'll blow you away:)
Mirroring - the Jedi mind tricks of body-language explained.
Kinaesthetics - make touching the girls your second nature, even (and especially!:) if you just met them, they'll love it:)
Approaching and making them interested:
(YOU won't BELIEVE HOW EASY THIS IS!!!)
Where to meet girls - the most popular places for a pick-up.
If she seems unapproachable - then maybe everyone thinks so... and she's all alone.
General guidelines on approaching - a few pointers and examples to get you started.
Demonstrate value and personality - the basic premise of seduction.
The importance of a first impression - or relative unimportance, depending on your attitude.
Getting introduced, shaking hands and hugging - how to get a woman intrigued within seconds of meeting her.
How to get a girl to chase you - even if she’s not interested in you at all
Pace and lead - and demonstrate understanding to increase rapport.
Approaches: (Absolutely ASTONISHING approaches REVEALED!!!)
- Simple approaches - examples of various conversational approaches.
- The cold approach - not a good approach, unless you combine this with the GM style.
- The collision approach - either let her walk by... or "bump" into her:)
- The available chair approach - that empty chair next to a HB looks inviting...:)
- The "Napkin Tic-Tac-Toe" approach - to meet her wherever she happens to sit in a restaurant or cafe.
- The crappy sketch-artist approach - because women like artists right?:)
- The dramatic approach - catch everyone's attention... including her's:)
- The cellular approach - to choose any topic of discussion.
- The "You know what they say about women who...?" approach - to have her want something from you instantly.
- The familiar approach - act like you already know her, or fool her into thinking she knows you:)
- The 'Let's get married" approach - have relationship, marry, divorce, end relationship, all within 30 seconds!
- Pez opener - a really "sweet" opener by Mystery:)
- You look stunning approach - careful though, not intended for use with the 9s and 10s:)
- Pacing the ongoing reality - a simple way to get instant rapport.
- Should I buy her a drink? - read why you'd better avoid it.
- Should I ask for her name? - so you'd know what name to yell when sleeping with your hand?:)
- Leech off someone else's crash and burn - anything is fair in love and war:)
- If she is working - a waitress, a nurse, a girl at the cashier - this one is universal.
- If you just have to use a pick-up line - they suck, unless you show you know they suck.
- "I like..." game as an opener - you can use this one anywhere.
- Mr Smooth technique - the game-show host style technique of a Japanese PUA, step by step.
- The questions game - a shortcut to sex-talk and kissing.
- Act out a classic male role - become a cowboy, biker or pilot; and get all the babes that come with the territory:)
Gimmicks - palm-reading:
(To make YOU seem INCREDIBLY INTERESTING TO THE GIRLS!!!)
Nightclubs and dancing:
(TELLS YOU WHAT TO DO AND WHAT NOT TO DO in the NIGHTCLUBS!!!)
Group tactics: (Unbelievably interesting strategies REVEALED!!!)
Neghits: (How to Make the HOTTEST GIRLS DROOL FOR YOU!!!)
Eliciting values: (HOW to CONNECT With ANY WOMAN!!! Or make them think you have connected with them!!!)
(SPECTACULAR STRATEGIES You would thank GOD for finding out!!!)
Sexual talk: (Yes...SEXUAL TALK...YOU will find out HOW TO DO IT!!!)
Patterning: (The basics of HYPNOTIC SEDUCTION to use on the LADIES!!!)
Additional patterning skills: (EVEN MORE!!!)
The patterns: (AMAZING PATTERNS REVEALED!!! SO MUCH!!!)
Online and phone seduction: (SEDUCTION WORKS ANYWHERE!!!)
Now that she's interested: (USING SCIENTIFIC PSYCHOLOGY!!!)
Common signs of interest - to know you're "in":)
Building a bridge AFC-style - if you can't do anything, do it at least the AFC way:)
If more than one girl is interested in you - don't choose, you might loose:)
Reading the signs of a "committed" woman - understand her seemingly contradictory signs.
Capitalise - there's a girl that has started liking you quite on her own!? Now act quickly!
Making a timely exit - instead on lingering on forever, leave her hungry for more.
Closing - how to get a girl to give you her phone number and e-mail address
Asking for a... date? - now that you have her number... what next?
Get-together strategies - the „no-no’s” and the „do-do’s”.
Go on minidates - to get from dating to making love in a matter of hours.
How to proceed to kissing - this will separate the boys from the men.
Proceeding instead of closing - for why would you want to "close" if things are going smooth?
Our World routine - constructing a world for her in which she will feel free to make love to you:)
Inviting the girl over to your place - to "check out a book or something...":)
If she has second-thoughts - she wants it but can't quite make up her mind, "help" her:)
Gain the ultimate trust - and the woman will surrender her body to you almost instantly.
My home is my love-nest - make sure you can be confident about the quality of your retreat.
Networking and pivots - if you're not quite interested any more or she's not quite interested yet.
Handling the girls: (To Make you Look like the ALPHA MALE!!!)
Be busy - attract girls by being "busy".
Suggest competition - keep her on her toes.
Put a price on yourself - the more you "cost", the more value she attributes to you.
Broadcast your high standards - and she won't even have a chance NOT to choose you.
Show a willingness to walk away - don't let her take you for granted.
Use her friends - by realising, that "friendship" also means "rivalry".
Judge her by her actions, not by her words - or rather, let her actions speak the words.
Have and reveal secrets - provide a constant thrill for the woman.
Use poetry - women are about feelings; poems are about feelings - and mixing the two gets KABOOM!
If she compliments you - make her feel good for having done that:)
Act like its special - and what you have can not be found anywhere else.
Paying her a compliment - an AFC trap, unless you do it right.
Cook for her and "date" at home - main dish will be less expensive and the "dessert" more convenient:)
When should you call a woman after having sex with her? - don't blow it, she'll be very sensitive.
How to make a girl you've made love to also fall in love with you - if that's your goal, this'll do the trick.
Romantic gifts and things to do - but use these to reward, not to bribe.
How to prevent a woman from becoming your girlfriend - and still keep all the fun you're having together.
Managing many relationships at once - best policy is (tailored:) honesty.
Troubleshooting: (MORE SUPER TIPS REVEALED!!!)
If she calls you a loser or an idiot - how to turn the tables and make her feel embarrassed.
If she asks for YOUR number instead - don't fall for this (relates to Closing).
If she still refuses to give you her number - a strategy of covert persistence.
If she says "Why do you ask?" - read how to recover (relates to Patterning and Eliciting values).
If she asks "Are you trying to seduce me?" - you need to know how to answer.
"Have you ever...?" gets busted - what do you do, if she says "No" in response (relates to Patterning).
Ejecting - you don't always have to close. Know when to cut your losses.
If she cancels a date - she screwed you (and not the way you hoped she would:). Now what?
If she doesn't return your phonecall/e-mails - a zero-tolerance policy.
If she shows disrespect for you - you dump her, aka The Returning Fox Theory.
The age difference problem - you shouldn't anticipate it, but its good to be prepared.
Nothing works with the girl - and you tried all your techniques. But there's an ace up your sleeve:)
If she says "Let's just be friends" - looks like you're in trouble, read how to recover.
Dealing with rejection - why you should never get rejected and how to cope with it, if you do.
But I really want this girl! - read why this is such a self-defeating attitude.
The boyfriend problem
Miscellaneous: (EVEN MORE!!!)
Fun and games - you'll love these:) "The kissing bet", "Osama", "A-Hole + truth or dare".
Bad jokes - careful:) "Pants in the air", "Telepathic watch", "Spermogram", "Doctor's appointment".
A game of Crash and Burn - a great experience (and confidence?:) builder.
More things to do for fun - useless, but fun:)
Top colognes - for getting the girls, of course.
Miscellaneous suggestions and observations about seduction - a recap.
Articles: (FUN AND Interesting ARTICLES!!!)
Article in Rolling Stone - a tour of modern seduction literature, NLP and Speed Seduction.
The Iranian from hell - do your looks matter? Read this report by Maniac High and decide for yourself:)
The pivot theory - NYC explains the benefits of making girls your pivots.
Ross comments on www.introme.com - his one-page website / personals ad full of NLP and SS.
Falling in love vs being a player - in case you have any feelings of guilt.
A female seducer turning straight girls into bi and lesbian - all bi girls, this one's for you:)
Advice on Attracting Younger Women - if you want to offer the "older man experience" - then this one's for you:)
Article in Playboy - the Harvard-educated journalist experiences a paradigm shift.
Job Interview patterns - a different perspective on NLP and patterning. 2 patterns.
Field reports: (Watch the masters themselves IN ACTION!!!)
The rich and famous setup - but even more accurately the "tired of female attention" setup:)
The effectiveness of persistence with a smile - true seduction - choose and seduce:)
Svengali's street pick-up - a classic street pick-up using humour, romance, sex-talk and kino.
Svengali's friend's street pick-up - a "neg" of sorts gets the ball rolling:)
The original Mr Smooth posts - Maniac High describes the technique of a Japanese PUA.
NightShadow's IRC seduction - an example of an image to create good feelings.
David Shade's online seduction - this guy is really good:) A log of him and a married woman.
David Shade's real-life seduction - and he's not just a computer geek cowering behind his keyboard:)
Maniac High's report, NYC's comments - important points being discussed.
The Orgasmotron - Alex Akselrod plants a post-hypnotic suggestion.
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